Helping Children Conquer Disorganization Sammy (age 11) chronically loses his homework, can’t find anything in his messy room, forgets to do his chores and really just wants to watch TV all day. He’s gained considerable weight. He complains and whines when his parents get on him to do better. His grades in school are...
How to Teach Your Children Responsibility
What are we striving to achieve when we say that we are raising children? When children can accept full responsibility for the consequences of their choices, they are "grown up. Responsibility means the ability to respond appropriately given the needs of a situation. Your children will be...
Parents - Do You Command Or Communicate With Your Child?
Mom passes Sarah's room, and sees her throw her pajamas on the floor.
"Put those in the laundry!" says Mom. Sarah picks them up, and puts
them in the laundry basket. Sounds good, right? Is there anything wrong with this exchange? You might be
surprised but there is. Stop and...
Parent Advice: Help! My child is a brat!
If your child is a brat, chances are that you've developed a
permissive parenting style. Put a stop to it now. This situation may sound familiar - you are a busy
executive, or a working single mom, or simply a parent that is busy with the
demands of life. Maybe you feel...
Common Sense Isn’t so Common
I am struck by the amount of counseling that I do with
parents where it appears to my client like as though I am a genius when I am
simply helping them use the six steps of logical problem solving. If parents
would do this for themselves, they wouldn’t have so many unsolved...
Handicap Bathrooms May Be Made More Comfortable!
A survey conducted by a US newspaper shows that an average person spends as many as three years of his age in bathroom. If that is the case, then why shouldn't be our bathroom more comfortable and cozy?Let's do something which makes these three years memorable and amazing. A bath can be taken at...
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Relationship Help: Booze ruining relationship
This question was to Ellie Tesher at The Calgary HeraldQ: Whenever I'm relaxing with friends, my girlfriend says I've had too much to drink, said something to disrespect her, acted the fool, etc.She ruins my time with her constant "let's go," and nags me the next day for things I don't even...
Why Bad Boys Get A Lot of Women Clean is good; squeaky clean, not so much. Sometimes you’ll want to have an edge to your personality. Some of the times I’m MOST attractive is when I’ve got a hangover and just don’t give damn. Capture that spirit, full of sarcasm and edge, and you can be the Motley Crue...
Creating A Powerful First Impression You know it’s not that important – but it still counts for something. Let’s take a moment to talk about what you should do to make yourself look good.First Impression?When it comes to attraction, a lot of people would think you’d talk about appearance first off – after all, it’s...
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How To Be Treated Like A VIP
I get this question a LOT...
"Should I tip my dancer?"
It seems to be the age-old question, doesn't it? I mean, after all, the girls are there to WORK, right?
Hell, I even know dancer that try and hustle guys for tips just for sitting down and TALKING to them.
Well, when it comes to...
Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends
I get this question a lot: "Do strippers make good girlfriends?" There seem to be a lot of misconceptions about strippers. A lot of them are painted as "Sluts" and "Drug Addicts." And while that is true for some, that isn't true for all of them. Most strippers are actually wonderful women. ...
Are Strippers Really Crazy
We've all heard the rumors. Everyone's had a buddy who's dated a "Crazy" stripper. We've heard him talk about how much drama she was, and how insane she made his life. And its true, there are some genuinely CRAZY strippers out there that can make your life buck-wild. But you never hear about...
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How to Interact With Your Baby
Do you think that your
baby is too young for you to enjoy interacting with him? Think again. There is
a lot you can do that will be fun for both of you. Additionally, it will also
have a beneficial effect on your baby's development.
Talk to your baby. Identify the different sounds and
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Mystery Method - Basic Concepts Mystery Method - Basic Concepts
Mystery Method uses the term 'value' to describe the benefit of
aligning with a person or group with the potential to improve one's reproductive chances
(Replication value) or quality of life (Survival value). A big, alpha
male poses a large possible threat to...
Mystery Method - The M3 Model Mystery Method - The M3 Model
The Mystery Method M3 Model
is divided into 3 steps: Attraction, Comfort and Seduction, each of
which is divided into 3 phases. The Method teaches a set of strategies
and tactics for each phase to successfully move the interaction forward
toward the end goal,...
The Pick Up Artist - Rejection and Approach Anxiety The Pick Up Artist - Rejection and Approach AnxietyLogically,
rejection causes us no harm. But emotionally, rejection can be a
punishing experience. To understand this, we must look at the ancient
environment for which we were designed.In a tribal group, there
will be some small number of...
The Pick Up Artist - Stimulate her emotions The Pick Up Artist - Stimulate her emotionsThe venusian
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long as it feels right, your romantic interest will invent her own
reasons for what is happening. In other words, when you can give her
the right feelings, her...
Change Your Focus
Two and a half
weeks ago, my laptop–my prize possession after my Bible–started giving
me trouble. I had to send away for the item I needed to fix it.
Then seven days
ago, I woke up with what I thought was just a kink in my neck. It
became clear after several days...
Hold On
A couple of weeks ago, God dropped the word perseverance into my spirit. That’s
when I looked up the word. The word perseverance comes from the
Greek transliterated word proskartereo. It means to be
steadfastly attentive unto, to give unremitting care to a thing. ...
I Do Not Want To Be Right
My grandmother stood in her yard a little over a year ago. She shook a
photo. One that I had seen many times. One of me and some distant
cousin playing together when we were real young. I didn’t recall the
actual event, but I had heard the story many, many times. "Do you have a photo...
He Created Me To Be Me
For years, I
wanted to be someone else. Anyone else. Someone
prettier. Someone smarter. Someone more talented. I
wanted to be anybody but me.
I couldn’t wish,
beg or plead myself into being a different person. I didn’t have
a magic wand...
Religion Or Relationship?
When did you become religious? I didn’t.
I went to church
for the first fifteen years of my life. I memorized Bible
verses. I attended Sunday School. I acted in the church
plays. But I am not religious.
I have a relationship.
You see,...
The Never Lie
You’ll never
make it. You’ll never be successful. You’ll never get
married. You’ll never change. It’s never going to happen
for you.
Have you ever
heard these lies parade through your mind? I know I have and so
have countless others like me who have...
From Another Perspective
What have you been up to since we graduated high school?
That question
has been coming up a lot lately. And at first that question made
me cringe because I didn’t take the path that most of my friends
did. I didn’t get married or become as great a success as most...
What Is The Password?
Awhile back, we
bought a new washer and dryer for our home. When we went to
install it, though, we discovered that a part was missing. A part
that was essential.
After calling
the store, we learned that we would have to pay for the part if we
wanted it. Even...
A Calm And Patient Expectation
Come unto me,
all [ye] that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in
heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. - Matthew 11:28 -
29.
Close to nine
years ago, I suffered a loss. My...
Step By Step
For years I struggled with two hidden addictions. Most of the people around me didn’t even know they existed.
I would be able to stop for weeks, even months at a time, but then the
addiction would rear its ugly head again. Especially when I
stressed out.
I took those...
Four foods to never feed your baby
Aside from the risk of choking when feeding solid foods to babies less than 6 months old, here are foods that can be poisonous to babies: 1. Peanut butter - no risk in most children, but highly elevated risk if history of allergy in the family. American Academy of Pediatrics...
Mirror Image
Have
you ever looked into a mirror and didn’t like what you saw? Some
feature of your physical appearance that you thought was ugly?
Perhaps your nose. Maybe your eyes or your thighs. This
week I had a similar experience. Only the mirror I was looking
into didn’t...
What You Allow, You Agree With
I remember Lindsay Roberts writing in her book, "Stressless Living: Release the Pressures of Life and Start Enjoying Every Day" that God told her that what she allowed, she agreed with.
And as I began to ponder that, I started to see the truth in what He said.
“I tell you the
truth,...
Advice for dads from Dad
According to the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, a majority of stroller accidents are caused by tipping. Whether caused by standing children, or unbalanced loads, the result is usually an abrasion or laceration.However, a much more serious accident that doubles in number each year is one...
Will The Truth Stand Up?
The truth–where did it go? Why is it more acceptable in this world to believe the lies rather than the truth?
Today our society is more interested in not offending anyone, not
hurting anyone’s feelings, because the...
Putting The Christ Back In Christmas
Friday, I visited the drive-thru at the bank. When the teller finished my transaction, she said, "Happy Holidays!"
Instead of "Merry Christmas," all the businesses have the words
"Happy Holidays" or "Seasons Greetings" scrawled on their windows.
And no one seems to...
The Deciding Witness
Ever had one of those days where you wished you had stayed in bed with
the covers over your head? Have you ever wished that you had never
stepped foot out of bed or out of the house? Yesterday was one of those days for me.
My neighbor has been causing trouble. I reached the point...
Did God Really Say...
To
be deceived. What does that mean? The dictionary defines
it two ways: 1) to cause to believe what is not true;
mislead 2) to give a false impression." Back
in the Garden of Eden, God gave Adam and Eve guidelines on from which
trees they could eat. Only one...
Everything's Going To Be Okay!
Ever been in
the middle of a struggle? A time in your life when nothing seems to be
going right? When the bills are about due and you have no money to pay
them? When your child is sick and you have no idea how to help him?
When it seems like no matter how hard you try, nothing seems to...
This Too Shall Pass!
Thursday I came
down with some type of virus. By the end of the night, I was
violently ill. I had periods of time where I was fine before
being sick to my stomach again. This lasted about twelve hours before I
finally managed to get more than an hour or two of sleep.
It...
Believe It!
In my email this week, I received a notice that one of my articles had
been reviewed. I had never received a bad review on any of the articles
I had posted on this website. In fact, all the comments up until that
point had been encouraging. So I wasn't prepared for what I
read. The...
As Our Souls Prosper...
Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not
know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the
desert. - Isaiah 43:19 (KJV) God
is doing a new thing throughout the earth. And He wants to do a new
thing in our lives too. He wants to take all...
Calling All Water-Walkers...
How many times has God impressed you to do something, and you
didn't do it? How many times has He told you to talk to a person
about Him or lay hands on someone, and you let the opportunity slip
through your fingers? How many times has He told you to give
something to a certain...
From Barrenness To Brokenness
Call up on the Lord. Cry out to God. Seek Him with all your heart. What do these terms mean?
They simply mean to pour your heart out before God. They mean to
be honest with Him and to speak what's in your heart. Good or
bad. You don't have to protect God from...
How To Win At Waiting
Waiting on God. How scary is that? And are we really waiting on God? Or
is God waiting on us? Is it really a matter of God's timing? Or are we
blocking our own progress by not doing what God told us to do in the
first place? The first thing to do when walking through this
type of confusion...
Who's Driving Your Life?
In the past week, God has been talking to me about trust, about
relinquishing control of my life to Him. He told me that when I
try to be in control of every detail of my existence, I tie His hands
from working in my circumstances. Control comes from
fear. Fear that...
Never Give Up!
Never give up! Those are the words that resonate in my spirit this morning.
Have you ever felt tired of waiting on God's will to manifest in your
life? Have you ever been tired of doing God's will and seeing no
results? Or trying new things, stepping out of the boat,...
All Things Through Christ
Through
Christ. You can do all things only through Christ. Not in
your own strength but in God's strength. It is only Christ living
in you, being in you, that causes you to have the ability to do all
things. Think
about that for a moment, Christ lives in you, if...
Do You Want To Change?
Do you want to change? To really change? Or are you happy, content, with the status quo? I am not a status quo person. I want to do whatever is necessary to get me to my destination of where God wants me to be. But
most of us don't want to endure the process it takes to get...
What Are You Meditating On?
“Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” - Hebrews 1:1 (NIV).
Faith is.. Faith is now. Not two years from now. Not
five years down the road. Faith is now.
You see, faith is believing in things...
How Do You See God?
What is your concept of God? Do you view Him as mean and
punishing? Just waiting for you to mess up so He can strike you
with lightening? Or do bad things to you? Or do you see Him
as loving and on your side?
The truth is that most of us see God as mean and...
Are You Distracted?
One morning last week, I heard a noise as
I was in the car headed on my morning routine to the post office, then
to get breakfast. I instantly knew what it was. A flat
tire...and I was right. But it was more than a flat tire...it
was a distraction sent to us by the...
You Are Not A Failure
God
has a purpose for your life. Not many people understand
that. Not maybe people comprehend that you were put on this Earth
randomly. It wasn't because your parents got together and created
you. No, God picked you out, chose you from the beginning of the
world to...
If You've Reached Nowhere
Ever felt as if you were going nowhere? That achieving your dream was one big struggle? Abraham
waited two decades for the son God promised him. When Joseph was
seventeen, he dreamed that his father and brothers bowed down to him.
Joseph waited almost two decades to see that happen. Jacob...
Your Assignment Is...
“For
I know the thoughts and plans I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts
and plans for welfare and peace, and not for evil, to give you hope in
your final outcome” (Jeremiah 29:11 AMP). Have
you ever been suspicious of God’s intent? Have you thought God’s best
was like...
The Place Of Purpose
A few years ago, the Gilbert Police in Arizona, approximately
fifty-miles from my home, uncovered a plot to massacre the students and
faculty of Gilbert High School. Six
students planned a Columbine-like shooting spree, master-minded by a
young woman. Altogether four females and two males...
What Is A Trailblazing Visionary?
The title of this blog is Trailblazing Visionary, but what is a trailblazing visionary?
It is someone who is not afraid to take the road less traveled, the
road that is difficult and hard, because that is the road they know God
is leading them to. They are not afraid of people who...
Dealing with Debt: First Steps advantage.
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Stop The Rot Chances are the rot will stop you before you stop it. When the debt gets just too high and you start getting in to a situation of borrowing to pay off the debt, the time will come soon after when the rot will stop you and you can borrow no more either from common sense or from the fact that lenders...
Hey, my problem was solved anonymously! I wrote to a site that seems to be the greatest advising site of all time, Smart and Sassy. I actually wrote to them a long time ago when the neighbor kids were pissing the fuck out of me, but that has passed because the neighbor kids basically stay away now. In my question, I said...